Saturday, September 14, 2013
My Thoughts on Ending or Staying in a Relationship
Why do people stay in relationships when their significant other is treating them like crap? I can guess for a lot of women that I know: Financial security and kids. People tends to stay if they can't live without the financial that they have gotten used to. People also tends to stays because they don't want to break up their two parents household that they been raising their kids in. I can't blame them. I wouldn't want to have a kid on my own. It's tough on the child especially if both parents don't get along. So do we stay in a relationship that neither party can't stand each other? No. This is just my opinion and I would be happy if somebody disagree with me. I do have different reasons if you are a married couples and non-married couples. Married couples in my humble opinion shouldn't even discuss divorce unless one of them is commiting adultery. No matter what the problems they have, there should be some working out the problems. When people get married, they are making a commitment to each other through love to stay with each other til death do you part. It is a life long commitment that you should keep unless there is adultery. Who cares if you two agrues a lot? Go to the next room or take a walk to cool out. The next time you two discuss the problem with level heads and work through your problem. People is so ready to divorce each other over nonsense. I would have to say there is another reason for your marriage to end in divorce is if your significant other is physically abusive to you. Some people may disagree with that reason. Non married couple is a different story. I don't think a couple who have been together for awhile should be hold to the same standards since they haven't made that commitment to each other by marrying each other. They also should just break up with each other because of too many arguments especially if they are stupid. The thing about non married couples can break up if there isn't any passion there anymore or whatever the situation may be. Non married couples do stay together for the wrong reasons because of finances and because they have a child together. I see it so many times that the woman or man is getting treated badly by the other. You shouldn't stay together because you two are obviously not getting married if two been together for awhile if nobody even mention the thought of marriage. So you two shouldn't stay together because of a kid that you two have together which you two shouldn't even made if you two wasn't even commited to each other. There is too many kids that is getting brought up in a loveless houshold. It continue the cycle of people who stays in loveless relationships. If finances is keeping you two together and you two don't really care for each, the couple should just try to work on how to better yourself or work it out how to live like you are use to. Everybody deserve to be happy so don't get yourself stuck in a relationship that you are not happy in. What do you say to a married couple who just don't love each other anymore? I don't know what to say. All I can think of is don't rush into marriage because you two love each other for the moment. What I can say is that as long as you can see yourself getting old with that person then go for it. If you the reader have a different opinion on anything I have written let me know in the comments section. I made not even be right in any of this.
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