My Thoughts on Ending or Staying in a Relationship

Why do people stay in relationships when their significant other is treating them like crap? I can guess for a lot of women that I know: Financial security and kids. People tends to stay if they can't live without the financial that they have gotten used to. People also tends to stays because they don't want to break up their two parents household that they been raising their kids in. I can't blame them. I wouldn't want to have a kid on my own. It's tough on the child especially if both parents don't get along. So do we stay in a relationship that neither party can't stand each other? No. This is just my opinion and I would be happy if somebody disagree with me. I do have different reasons if you are a married couples and non-married couples. Married couples in my humble opinion shouldn't even discuss divorce unless one of them is commiting adultery. No matter what the problems they have, there should be some working out the problems. When people get married, they are making a commitment to each other through love to stay with each other til death do you part. It is a life long commitment that you should keep unless there is adultery. Who cares if you two agrues a lot? Go to the next room or take a walk to cool out. The next time you two discuss the problem with level heads and work through your problem. People is so ready to divorce each other over nonsense. I would have to say there is another reason for your marriage to end in divorce is if your significant other is physically abusive to you. Some people may disagree with that reason. Non married couple is a different story. I don't think a couple who have been together for awhile should be hold to the same standards since they haven't made that commitment to each other by marrying each other. They also should just break up with each other because of too many arguments especially if they are stupid. The thing about non married couples can break up if there isn't any passion there anymore or whatever the situation may be. Non married couples do stay together for the wrong reasons because of finances and because they have a child together. I see it so many times that the woman or man is getting treated badly by the other. You shouldn't stay together because you two are obviously not getting married if two been together for awhile if nobody even mention the thought of marriage. So you two shouldn't stay together because of a kid that you two have together which you two shouldn't even made if you two wasn't even commited to each other. There is too many kids that is getting brought up in a loveless houshold. It continue the cycle of people who stays in loveless relationships. If finances is keeping you two together and you two don't really care for each, the couple should just try to work on how to better yourself or work it out how to live like you are use to. Everybody deserve to be happy so don't get yourself stuck in a relationship that you are not happy in. What do you say to a married couple who just don't love each other anymore? I don't know what to say. All I can think of is don't rush into marriage because you two love each other for the moment. What I can say is that as long as you can see yourself getting old with that person then go for it. If you the reader have a different opinion on anything I have written let me know in the comments section. I made not even be right in any of this.

Are YOU doing what you WANT to do in LIfe?

Do any of us actually do what we want in life? I know I not. I work two jobs to give my money to other people to make rich. What am I putting into this world. Nothing. I would like to make my mark on the world, but I have to adapt to social norm. I am nothing, but a drone that work and work. The one thing I want to do in life is to help people or leave a mark on people lives. I want to go to a foreign country where it is terrible living situations and scarced in resources. If all I do in life is work two jobs that I dislike then so be it, but I want to at least do something to give back to the world that is mean something. I have been thinking about volunteering in Africa or some foreign country that need help for some time now. I been trying to see what is the best options on doing that. I don't want to preach the word of God to people. I can do that, but not in the same way as missionary workers. There are plenty of people to do that. I don't think I could convey word of God to people. If I end of doing that, people might start to not believe in God if they believed in God in the first place. I want to figure out how else I can help. I checked multiple volunteer programs that can help me get started. I end up with International Volunteer Headquarters (IVHQ). I had signed up for the Ghana orphanage program because the children are the future of the world. If there is going to change in that country, it have to be with the youth of the country. I want to help put a change in the world. I am hoping that I can. I want to say again is that I work two jobs, but all that can afford is to pay my bills and feed myself. I heard of this crowdfunding site where you can raise money for almost anything. I had decided to try to use it raise funds to get to Ghana. It would be approximately three thousand dollars to get over there. I don't have that type of money laying around. That is why I am asking for help on this. If it doesn't happen I guess it wasn't been to be. If there is anything in the world you want to do in this life, just do it or at least try. I'm hoping that I can do this or anybody that want to do something with their life instead of making other people rich. Do something selfless. That is all I really want to do is do something completly selfless that is meaningful. There will be a link if you want to help my cause. Thanks in advance.

I am Black. Does it Matters Anymore? Part one

What does it means to be Black/African American? I am constantly getting told that I am not Black when I am obvious am. Does my personality dnot reflect a Black person? Is it just a stereotype that I am suppose to be? If someone who knows me reads this, can you tell me why am I not Black? On this day and age, does it matters what my race is? What do I see myself as? Why do we care about anybody race anymore? I do know that racism still exist, but not as much as when my parents were growing up.We live in world where we have a Black man as President( I know a lot of people hate him for his policies. I do too). There are more bi-racial couples and children popping up in the world now than there was even twenty years ago. We shouldn't care anymore about race. It is stupid to keep bringing up race at every chance we get. There are racists of all color. I hear Black people saying that the White man is keeping them down and not letting them have jobs. People of all races are having a hard time finding jobs. Those same Black people are the same ones who didn't have jobs before the economy went down the drain. They was living off of the government just like they are doing now. Also, there are White people and other races in America that are also living off of the government. Everybody have the same opportunities as the next person regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation and creed. There might be a little harder for some, but still have the same opportunities. Stop throwing your race at people when it really doesn't matters. I am going to keep this one short, but I will write on this subject again at a later date. I shall be leaving this in your head for now. Take care.

Just Getting Started.

This is just my thoughts on things about life, politics, relationships, and whatever that comes to mind. Maybe I would just use this just to rant. I'm sure people would love reading my rants. I doubt it. There are some stuff that I just want to say that isn't movie related or it is too long to have as a status on Facebook. I don't know what i am going to write about just yet. This is just an introdution to this new blog. I want people to see what goes on in my head. It could be right or wrong. It is really hard to actually tell people my thoughts in person. I have better time writing my thoughts down than speaking them. I don't know why, but it just does. Maybe I could just focus better writing my thoughts down than just speaking them. I should really work on that. You should see me at interviews. I am so terrible at interviews. I am going to keep this short so I am ending this post right now. Check in on the new blog. I will try to keep this more updated than the other one which I need to get better at too.